First Dates in particular features a wide variety of straight singles looking for love, but most of the time we only get to see a depressingly narrow vision of queer existence. First Dates , then. Honestly, I love Dinner Date. The show introduces a lonely heart to three blind dates, each of which has to cook them a three course meal. The contestant chooses their favourite to take out to a romantic restaurant, while the others get delivered a microwave meal for one.
Queer participants might appear less frequently than in other shows on this list, but with over episodes broadcast and six participants in each though only four actually get to go on the dates , Dinner Date certainly has numbers on its side.
Unfortunately, Dinner Dates is absolutely the worst offender when it comes to hackneyed musical choices; you will get sick of hearing t. Dinner Date is our winner! Sure, I enjoy the shows we have, but watching them en masse for this article was thoroughly depressing. I was surprised to find that queer women appeared in more or less equal numbers to — and in some cases actually outnumbered — queer men. Then again, maybe being barred from the world of dating shows for so long has really been a blessing in disguise — at least we got to skip the indignities of Sing Date. Heather is a UK-based web developer and freelance writer.
She also spends way too much time on Twitter. You need to login in order to like this post: I love this. Heather, I bloody love Naked Attraction. Like, ONLY in this country would a show like this have the gall to exist.
The pure objectification of it is pretty unique, but it seems like most of Europe had some iteration of an all-nude dating show back in ish. It made a little bit of a media fuss because, well, uncensored nudity is fine, but potentially sexual when the people involved are trying to seduce each other. Interesting to see Dinner Date win. My vote would go to Take Me Out, possibly the finest-crafted television in existence.
Due to our fucked-up puritanical norms on sexuality, such a show would be unimaginable here unless it was on HBO or something. James and Andra are pulled out of the party by Dani to make the next round of eliminations.
Unknown to James, the remaining twelve mates are divided into three groups of four and James must eliminate one from each group. James eliminates Marc gay , Paul straight and Jim straight. Nine mates are left. James, Andra and five of the remaining mates go on a group outing to a wildlife preserve. After the outing, back at the mates' house, James and Andra confront Dan over conflicting stories he has given them regarding his current dating status. Later that night, James, Andra and the other four remaining mates go out for a night of "gay karaoke" hosted by Miss Coco Peru.
At the next elimination round, the remaining nine mates are divided into three groups of three with James eliminating one from each group. Andra is given "veto power," allowing her to overrule one of James' choices and keep the eliminated mate in the house. Andra does not exercise her veto, and James eliminates Matt gay , Michael straight and Dan straight. There are six mates remaining. While Andra has a day at the spa, James and the remaining six mates go on a horseback riding group date.
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Later that night everyone gathers at the mates' house for a buffet supper. After dinner, a pair of strippers arrive at the mates' house and each of the mates end up giving James a lap dance. The next day brings the next round of eliminations.
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The mates are split into pairs and one from each pair is eliminated. James eliminates Darren gay , Robb gay and Sean straight. Three mates remain: Franklin; Wes; and Brian.
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At the end of this episode, Dani reveals the twist to James, that one of the remaining mates is straight. Andra has breakfast with the three remaining mates while James absorbs the twist. He reveals the twist to Andra, who flips out. James changes his game strategy from trying to choose someone to date to avoiding choosing the straight man. Each mate goes on an individual date with James. Franklin and James go to a spa for massages and dinner.
Brian and James take an early-morning balloon ride and have breakfast at a resort. Wes and James take a limousine ride to a "lookout point," followed by a ride in a horse-drawn carriage and a back yard candlelight dinner at which several dozen of the candle flames merge, explode and set a table on fire. All three of the remaining mates remain; there is no elimination. The trip was awarded in the form of travel vouchers. No one gets into a helicopter or bungees off the side of a bridge or stares down her direct competition across the table.
By episode three, I had decided it was deceptively appealing. At that point, the addictive secret of Dating Around was clear: Sure, Dating Around is still limited in scope in its own way. But it takes advantage of the gaps other dating shows leave unconsidered.
Many of the singles featured are people of color; two of the episodes are about queer people. Episode four, my favorite of the bunch, is about a widower in his 60s — a private eye , no less! The breadth is good because it makes the show better. Although the episodes follow the same format of drinks, dinner, and a potential after-dinner drink, cutting between five different dates, the rhythm and tone of each is distinct.
The tensions and intimacies are different. The date with an older man who has to talk about his deceased wife while getting to know a new person involves completely different feelings from the date with a young gay woman who makes a joke about scissoring. Dating Around also manages to escape one of the biggest pitfalls of its glossy, highly-produced look.